“The lost art of the sentence”

…this is a quote from Andrew Peterson during his interview with Randy Elrod at the Recreate Conference.

Andrew is an amazing singer/songwriter and Founder of the Rabbit Room and quite the Artisan – he’s all about his craft. He was discussing how, in his view, in the modern world we knock out books, we write chapters, we blast through paragraphs but we’ve stopped crafting the sentence – we don’t take time over the detail.

During his talk it was almost a passing comment but it really stuck with me. As a singer/songwriter myself but particularly as a worship leader and business leader I’m regularly in a place where my ability to convey an idea or capture a moment is everything I rely on. And yet, really, truly, how often do I take the time to actually ‘craft’ my sentences?

If I’m honest – not often.

I’m a wing-it kind of guy and I’m often at my strongest acting on the spur of the moment or dealing with situations on the fly but I’ve felt really challenged of late not to let this strength become an excuse. I want to write and record a worship album this year and I’m engaged in an increasing amount of public speaking at work

…and so ‘the lost of the sentence’ is buzzing round my head reminding me that I need to really sit down and craft my words.

Andrew Peterson played a show at Recreate with his fellow artists at Rabbit Room all of whom were amazing – particularly Andy Gullahorn – these guys REALLY knows how to craft a lyric – exquisite emotion but enough ambiguity to let you paint your own picture and own what they’re saying – you NEED to check their stuff out!

Another inspiration was Ken Davis on his talk about living as a Creative. I mentioned him in my last blog but he deserves mention again as a master craftsman of public speaking. For 45 mins he just told a few stories and one minute you were laughing and one minute you were crying – It was SO engaging.

The most striking thing though was when I looked at my notes.

I’ve pasted them below, just as I’d written them down listening to his stories – look at them – no mention of his stories in of themselves, just total life application for me – one sentence after another with the most profound truth (check the last one out – this is exactly what he did!):

Healthy relationships work through conflict. There’s no such a thing as no conflict

Most people long to be alive and don’t feel even close

Creatives only feel good when they’re living to the maximum extent

The Glory of God is man fully alive

Millions of people die at 25 but don’t get buried till 75. They die with their song still in them

I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection (this came from another master communicator – Paul!)

This life is not a waiting room for heaven

Comfortable, neutral, lazy & boring – a life of leisure is a life of death

Life comes from discipline

A body in motions stay in motion, a body in rest, rests in peace

Do I do what I do to live or to make a living?

The opposite of discipline is death

Failure is the price tag of success

We’re called to run the race not win it

Creatives should inspire other creatives as well as doing the business themselves

This guy has mastered the art of the sentence!

And I plan to as well…

As well as some great new songs, hopefully I might even blog a bit better in the future too!

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I AM “A CREATIVE”

…there you go I’ve said it.

I AM A CREATIVE!

Might seem funny to hear a musician and web designer making a proclamation of this fact but the truth is I’ve never really been able to say it before.  That is, before this year’s Recreate Conference in Franklin TN, and particularly the specific elements of the  keynote speeches from Randy Elrod *(particularly) and Ken Davis on what it is to be ‘a creative’ i.e. someone who is quintessentially definable as such.

I think up to that point to call myself ‘a’ creative rather than someone who ‘applies creativity’ or who ‘is’ creative would have been to call myself ‘a flake’ or ‘someone that think’s everyone else should pay for their self indulgence.’   Quite possibly because of the logical / scientific side of my personality; possibly because I’m a businessman that deals with the realities of the design industry daily, or maybe simply because I’m english (and we typically don’t want to create a fuss!) I’ve just generally had a problem with the associating myself with the moniker.  I haven’t liked the kinds of people it often brings to mind – disorganised, head-in-the-clouds, self-absorbed drop-outs…   (harsh?  yeah, probably but I’m trying to articulate a negative starting point!)

But now I don’t.  There’s too much evidence in my life of the  personality traits defined as being in the character make-up a person commonly as being ‘a creative’.  Here are just a few examples that spoke to me the most:

A creative has a generally more emotionally-charged form of Empathy

Randy identified the forms of empathy as being:

  • Cognitive empathy – understanding intellectually how someone feels
  • Emotional empathy – feeling how someone feels
  • Compassionate empathy –  it’s like your living it with them

A Creative is more likely to be a compassionate empath.  This means they have some great strengths but also some very clear weaknesses.  In a simple example I know I’m best deployed at work when shaping the future, putting teams together, generally inspiring. I’m not best dealing with things like disciplinary or other HR processes where I may get so involved in someone’s story that it makes it a very emotionally draining process whereas someone with cognitive empathy will be able to do something sensitively but dispassionately.

A creative person is intuitive.

The spirit is to the soul what the mind is to the body and we need to understand our spiritual mind and remain connected to that which feeds the soul.  As a creative I think you have a natural awareness when something is missing, when the spark is gone – either in yourself or whatever you are objective considering.

Often times I have a general feeling about something well before I can articulate it.  For a long time I’ve forced this part of me down in favour of working through a logical process.  Because it’s describable and traceable I trust the logical process much more but as I’ve got older I’ve been able to speed this rationalisation process up and time and again my natural intuition has been proven right, even if I may early thoughts as to maybe why something is the case have been wrong.

An Interesting fact in all this is that almost all kids are scientifically validated as being ‘highly creative’ on a creativity scale – the results diminish as follows over time:

  • 90% aged 5
  • 70% aged 7
  • 5% (5!!) aged 18+

We need to be more attentive to our creative spirit generally.  I’ve always felt being childlike in life has immense value.

A Creative person is charismatic.

Charisma, apparently, can be defined as the ability to help people feel intimate in a none-intimate space. Charismatic people are people comfortable in their own skin  (Charis = grace.  Grace =God in us.  It’s the fruit of truly understanding freedom you could argue).  Other people have recognised me as being someone who doesn’t change when in different circumstances or social circles.  Being authentic has always been important to me as has being attentive to my own emotions  (even if its not agreeing with myself that I’m having the correct emotional response to something and figuring that out) as has been trying my best to focus on other people and reacting accordingly. Someone once advised - are you listening or planning what you’re saying next?

A Creative only feels good when they’re living to the maximum extent.

This is SO true of me.  For YEARS I’ve put myself down as just being a discontent or at worst ungrateful.  But actually, hearing this is so much more life-affirming a validating – of course you’re going to feel discontent if you’re quintessential nature as a creative means that you need to live life to the maximum extent.  I need new projects, new learning, new experiences, new places to visit.  And I don’t feel bad about it! How freeing!

Creatives inspire other creatives as well as doing the business themselves.

One of the reason’s I love running a business, performing music or leading worship is that I love connecting with people.  Now the truth is I’m an introvert – meaning I get energy by being on my own.  People drain me, and yet I love the feeling of making something happen or being a part of something where the whole becomes greater than the sum of it’s parts.  Where everyone moves forward together. Where everyone is inspired to reach higher, dreamer bigger, go further.

Creativity and Entrepreneurship go hand in hand.

So I look at my resume and that I’ve set up and run a web business, co-own a watersports school, produced numerous CDs (inc Supervision and Finchley as well as others) and have even commercially my house by always having lodgers…. and I reckon this is true!

So, in conclusion – I am a creative!  And actually, I look up at the above examples and feel quite content to be so.  I am free of seeing only the negative and am therefore going to be more a-tuned to preserving my creativity and living a life that protects it and lets it flourish.

Because it’s who I am and what I aspire to be.

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Recreate Conference

recreate songwriter's night

recreate songwriter's night

So last week I attended a gathering of creatives in Franklin, TN at a conference called Recreate. It was my first time there and a truly phenomenal experience. I was fortunate enough to be immersed in music, art, literature, theatre, business and a whole lot more besides alongside another 150 creative minds, speakers and leaders.

Checking through my Evernote notes there’s SO much to process and I figure the best way to do so would be to work through my notes and try and disseminate (or ‘diffuse’ as Randy would say) some key themes into some separate blogs. So watch this space over the next few days but in the meantime you can check out twitter:

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Thinking and Feeling – creating culture

You’ve got 3 bowls:

  1. One with hot water in which you have your left hand in
  2. One with cold water which you have your right hand in
  3. one in the middle with luke warm water

So what happens when you put both hands in the middle one?

You guessed it, your right hand will feel hot and your left will feel cold and yet they’ll be in the same environment…

And this is why we need to balance what we think and what we feel.

We’ve all know ‘feelers’ who seem to bounce from one drama to another on the roller coaster of life.  And we all know thinkers – people who are so unruffled they go through the motions of life without seemingly a glimmer of emotion and often just ‘process’ the people they come into contact with.  The two types can often be dismissive of one another too – calling one another flakes or robots respectively.

The truth is both ways of living are limited.  The reality of the bowls example above is that whatever you might feel the environment is constant and it’s your previous experience and how that colours your senses which will determine what you understand.   To fully appreciate what’s going on you need to know what you are experiencing but fully appreciate where you’ve been to get the full truth.  If all you did was go on your feelings you’d come up with a nonsensical view of the water.  If all you did was say what you knew to be true it would deny the impact on your body and your sense of what the new enviroment is like in comparison to your past.

….and so I’ve been mulling on this in a company context.  Whatever we do, say, create or act out will be interpreted differently by every single person.  Our way to be truly effective in creating our culture or environment is to understand how people are experiencing it and communicate accordingly.  Otherwise we’ll kid ourselves that it what it is and everyone needs to get in line.  By the same token we can’t go too much on what individuals might say about it – we need to stay focused on what we’re intent on creating.  In addition we need to coach everyone to take a step back and work on taking a rounded view of what they’re involved in.  This way we all better ourselves, understanding more and communicating more effectively.

The same will be true of family life, church and any other form of community where you’re shaping something

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2010 in review – stats from WordPress about this blog

This is really really impressive from a free service.  Wordpress have introduced this report each year to show you how you are doing with your blog.  I’ve barely blogged anything really but see below how positively they report everything – it just makes you want to write again.  It’s a proper value-add that makes you loyal to them as a customer.  There’s something in this for how we run our Managed Services dept at Mando Group I reckon.  I’ll be mulling on some changes for 2011!

>>>>>>>>>>>

The stats helper monkeys at WordPress.com mulled over how this blog did in 2010, and here’s a high level summary of its overall blog health:

Healthy blog!

The Blog-Health-o-Meter™ reads This blog is doing awesome!.

Crunchy numbers

Featured image

A Boeing 747-400 passenger jet can hold 416 passengers. This blog was viewed about 1,900 times in 2010. That’s about 5 full 747s.

In 2010, there were 8 new posts, growing the total archive of this blog to 35 posts. There were 17 pictures uploaded, taking up a total of 3mb. That’s about a picture per month.

The busiest day of the year was February 13th with 73 views. The most popular post that day was 5 year plan update.

Where did they come from?

The top referring sites in 2010 were twitter.com, facebook.com, obama-scandal-exposed.co.cc, en-thuse.com, and digg.com.

Some visitors came searching, mostly for mando group md, ian finch, ian finch music, ian finch wordpress, finchley contraflow lyrics, and ian finch facebook.

Attractions in 2010

These are the posts and pages that got the most views in 2010.

1

5 year plan update February 2010
1 comment

2

everything July 2010

3

‘Strengths’ February 2010

4

Being Intentional November 2006
2 comments

5

remind me why I live in the city again?… November 2010

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remind me why I live in the city again?…

view at 7am Sunday morning (20 second rides and where I nailed my left!):

Saunton Sands, Devon

view at 7am Monday morning before going to work!:… sigh……

rainy city street

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everything

so, no blogs since Feb….  I can, however, summarise my path as follows:

spiritual and physical

a father and a son

domestic and untamed

on the mountain and in the valley

in the office and in the ocean

logical and intuitive

rationale and instinctual

creative and technical

a blank page and a worked up plan

ordered and chaotic

minimal and extravagant

linear and non-linear

argumentive and contemplative

expansive and focused

dynamic and static

known and unknown

free and constrained

led and leading

given and received

relaxed and intense

hopeful and concerned

risky and safe

open and closed

noisy and silent

solo and relational

unassuming and evangelistic

pragmatic and OCD

detailed and high-level

inspired and frustrated

content and ambitious

in my head and discussed with everyone…

…and I’ve learned that everything is everything.

everything is connected

everything has importance

and it’s in the tension of keeping it all together in harmony…

that you find truth

where you find illumination

and how you know what next step to take

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THE LOVE EP – OUT NOW – ALL PROCEEDS GOING TO HAITI – Finchley's MySpace Blog |

THE LOVE EP: Four stripped back songs all about love – recorded in one atmospheric late night session with two great friends on piano and guitar respectively. All the proceeds from this 4 track ep are going to the Mando Group Foundation’s Haiti Appeal.
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This EP has been released in a response to the humanitarian crisis faced by the people of Haiti. One hundred percent of the money received by me, Finchley, will go towards rebuilding that nation.

The EP itself is a collection of acoustic songs recorded in one late night session with me on guitar and vocals and my friends Greg Schofield and Shane Beales on guitar and piano respectively, all recorded by Chris Taylor at Rooftop studios. It was a session that was all about capturing the moment while we performed some simple songs about love and relationships – romantic, familial, spiritual or otherwise.

The project has been funded by an interesting source:

Like many musicians I work a day job as well and in my case I’m lucky enough to manage a Digital Agency – Mando Group. 2010 will see us officially launch the Mando Group Foundation, an arm of the business that will allow us to deliver a minimum of 10% of it’s profits to be donated to good causes. The company’s charitable foundation is managed by The Community Foundation for Merseyside and the first fund they will manage for us will be for the Disasters Emergency Committee (DEC) which is raising money for the victims of the recent tragedy in Haiti.

As an inaugural event to launch the foundation we laid down ‘The £100 Challenge’ where each of the company’s 45 staff have been handed £100 and challenged to grow that fund as much as they can.  All the proceeds raised will be added to the fund for the ..he Challenge will run throughout the first quarter of 2010 and the only rules are that the methods used to raise the cash must be legal, honest and decent!

So with my ‘£100 challenge’ I created a ‘legal, honest and decent’ music recording! – I pulled in some favours from my session musician and engineer friends mentioned above and managed to make this fully professional recording in a commercial studio and set up distribution courtesy of the team at CDBaby for the princely sum of £100! It’s my hope that this small sum spent can see £100′s or even £1000′s raised for the people of Haiti!

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'Strengths'

Been rereading my Strengths Finder results.  If you’ve never heard of ‘Strengths Finder’, you can check it at http://www.strengthsfinder.com -  it is one of many self-analysis thingamys out there – much like Belbin or Myers Briggs.  It’s incredibly accurate from what I can tell from my results and other people’s  and it’s particular focus is to help you value your core inate strengths as an individual and how you can structure your life to alway play to your strengths.

The simple plan is Your talentYour investment = Your Strength.

It’s my plan that Mando Group can be structured in such a way so that all staff can play to strengths and combined with some NLP analysis and training we can all learn how to understand and communicate with one another effectively and help each other play to strengths.

My Top 5 ‘strengths’ come out as the following:

ARRANGER
People who are especially talented in the Arranger theme can organize, but they also have a flexibility that complements this ability. They like to figure out how all of the pieces and resources can be arranged for maximum productivity.

It’s very likely that you volunteer for additional duties. You really enjoy being given authority over projects, individuals, or groups. You expect to be held accountable for the results you produce as well as your words and deeds. Because of your strengths, you are frequently asked to study data for your team. Numbers make sense to you. Interestingly, the same data baffle, confound — that is, confuse — and frustrate others in the group. These individuals likely are appreciative of your proficiency with mathematics. Chances are good that you may have a gift for noticing the differences between people. You might think variety is a good thing, not a bad thing. You might help individuals from diverse backgrounds discover ways they can cooperate so the team succeeds. Driven by your talents, you embrace life with more gusto when you can work or play alongside your teammates, classmates, coworkers, or peers. You normally figure out ways you can participate in a variety of group-oriented activities. Instinctively, you are the team member who keeps everyone else informed about newsworthy events in your family, neighborhood, community, school, or workplace. You usually have a plan for collecting information from a wide variety of sources.

STRATEGIC
People who are especially talented in the Strategic theme create alternative ways to proceed. Faced with any given scenario, they can quickly spot the relevant patterns and issues.

By nature, you probably feel very good about yourself and life in general when you know the exact words to express an idea or a feeling. Language has fascinated you since childhood. Your ever-expanding vocabulary often earns you compliments. Chances are good that you long to know more so you remain on the cutting edge of your field or areas of interest. Your inventive mind usually generates more possibilities than you can handle or fund. Nonetheless, you are committed to acquiring knowledge and/or skills. You study everything involved in a situation and conceive entirely new ways of seeing or doing things. What you already know prompts you to ask questions and delve even deeper into a subject or problem. Because of your strengths, you notice that multiple solutions to nagging problems automatically pop into your mind. You usually study each option from many different angles. After carefully evaluating the entire situation, you likely choose the alternative that makes the most sense. Why? You habitually aim to outscore or outperform most of your rivals most of the time. Instinctively, you work diligently to invent alternative courses of action. You notice new as well as unusual configurations in facts, evidence, or data. Others, however, can see only separate, unrelated bits of information. You are fascinated by problems that puzzle, confound, or frustrate most people. Driven by your talents, you select the right combination of words to convey your ideas or feelings. In the middle of discussions, your vocabulary provides you with precise phrases and terminology. You probably express yourself with ease and grace.

RELATOR
People who are especially talented in the Relator theme enjoy close relationships with others. They find deep satisfaction in working hard with friends to achieve a goal.

Instinctively, you are determined to share your knowledge and skills with people you coach, mentor, or train. Because of your strengths, you embrace life more fully when you are surrounded by people whose personal aims or professional ambitions are clearly defined. Driven by your talents, you may welcome the questions or concerns voiced by people. You might listen compassionately to some and offer counsel to others. People sometimes seek you out because your insights are helpful. Maybe they appreciate the way you occasionally cause them to think in new ways. By nature, you have close companions who frequently seek your guidance. You help them find answers to their personal and professional problems. This makes you a valuable friend. It’s very likely that you are comfortable offering suggestions to people who regularly seek your counsel — that is, recommendations about a decision or course of action they are considering. These individuals usually feel deep affection for you. You are likely to spend time together socializing as well as working or studying.

LEARNER
People who are especially talented in the Learner theme have a great desire to learn and want to continuously improve. In particular, the process of learning, rather than the outcome, excites them.

It’s very likely that you spend considerable time examining exactly why something has gone wrong. Whenever you experience a personal or professional loss, make a mistake, or experience failure, you tend to investigate. You are likely to be restless until you have answers to all your basic questions: What? How? When? Where? Who? Why? Because of your strengths, you habitually bring together all sorts of information so you can refer to it later. At the instant you collect a fact, example, story, or piece of data, typically you are eager to use it. You trust it is valuable. Your fascination with knowledge has probably been part of you even before you formed the words to ask your first question. Instinctively, you thirst for new ideas and knowledge. Often you lose yourself in a book. You pore over the ideas contained on its pages for long stretches of time. Why? You want to absorb as much information as you can. Driven by your talents, you are a history buff — that is, someone ardently devoted to studying the past. You are especially drawn to firsthand accounts of global conflicts. You link people to events and trace timelines. You are likely to examine major battles from the perspective of foes and allies as well as neutral parties. The sum of your findings probably allows you to determine what started and eventually ended each war. Chances are good that you yearn to acquire additional knowledge and skills. Often you use these to do something better, more perfectly, or more completely than you have in the past. You seek opportunities to enhance your capacity for fixing things, correcting mistakes, or overcoming weaknesses.

SELF-ASSURANCE
People who are especially talented in the Self-Assurance theme feel confident in their ability to manage their own lives. They possess an inner compass that gives them confidence that their decisions are right.

Driven by your talents, you routinely engage in exciting and adventurous activities. You refuse to settle for a boring existence. You probably sense that you have much to offer individuals and groups. Purposeful challenges combined with your realized potential impel you to take risks others avoid. It’s very likely that you like advancing on your own. You enjoy defying the odds. You find limited satisfaction in pursuing the easiest, the most popular, or the accepted course of action. By nature, you describe the good life as taking the dare, walking to the edge, running toward the unknown, or working high in the air without a net to stop your fall. You probably enjoy the rush of adrenalin that accompanies risky deeds or decisions. Instinctively, you prefer to register for rigorous courses of study rather than take easy classes. This often satisfies your need to do things that do not come naturally. You trust you can endure the unpleasantness and difficulties that accompany the expansion of your knowledge base, the acquisition of skills, and the conquest of deficiencies. Because of your strengths, you may like to get together with certain colleagues, associates, coworkers, or fellow students. Perhaps you relish talking about large-scale concepts, opinions, or theories.

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5 year plan update

Realised I was 2.5 year into my personal 5 year plan this week.

It’s caused some time for reflection and focus but generally speaking it’s remarkably on track – back in the summer of 2007 I wrote that by the summer of 2012 I wrote that I wanted:

To be a parent

After a fair while in the making our first, Asher, made his debut performance of 4th Jan this year and being a dad is just THE BEST experience in the world.  The boy is a legend :-)

To refocus my MD role at Mando Group to allow more creativity and client interaction / consultancy.

We’ve been steadily growing a fantastic management team over the last couple of years to help share the operational tasks of the business and the benefits are really starting to show.  This is both in the individuals who are taking more responsibility but also in me – particularly the whole ‘awesomeness’ concept for the business plan (check the mando site in March for more info! :-) and the new R&D dept at Mando Group which have happened.  They are both positive signs that there’s a bit more headspace to look at the world differently and it’s sparking great stuff in me and others.

To set up and be running a surf / extreme sports business and have 3 bases /  locations of operation internationally.

After initially slow progress this finally gathered some momentum and took form soon after a 2 month sabbatical in early 2008 where we’d traveled to South America, New Zealand, Fiji and Japan.   By late 2008 we had set up ROAM (www.keep-roaming.com) and in early 2009 we cemented something real and a proper starting point in the acquisition of Point Breaks down in Devon (www.pointbreaks.com) .

I think it’s unlikely there’ll be 3 places by 2012 but there could easily be 2 and research being made on a 3rd…

Musically for me to be on my third album and touring internationally.

First album was solid and well respected and got good me gigs at festivals. Since then I’ve done an acoustic EP which I’m about to release as a way of raising money for Haiti  (watch this space)

The biggest change here is that at the beginning of 2009 through a series of circumstances I felt it was actually time to give up the striving for bigger and better gigs and just go back to having fun with music.  This decision has led to coaching and leading a small music group at a local church, a general release of creativity and songwriting and also a passionate embrace of the drums – got myself an electric kit and I’m learning as best I can and LOVING it in much the same way as I did at 16 when learning guitar

This rather flies in the face of releasing 3 albums and touring internationally but I must say I’m enjoying music more now than I’ve done for ages and so it’s a win / win for me. Also, interestingly 6 months into my downing of tools with regards performance and releasing records 2 people contacted me independantly out the blue and gave me free studio time and I’ve now got 6 demo’s of new songs which I’m passionate about.  I have no idea where this might end up but I’m really enjoying the creative process and am blessed to be free of any “what if this song went stella’ thought processes that could take the fun away and make it a striving thing again.

So all in all I’m not doing too bad.   Worth saying within all this there was a desire to get fit again and in the last 18month I went from no running at all to doing a 10k and then continuing the discipline thereafter which led to training for a triathlon and passing a lifeguard qualification!

yay for me :-)

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